⸸ Typically people introduce themselves with a nickname or username, but I much prefer when people gift me a name or calling! Please gift me whatever nickname you'd like, and if I'm not fond of it I'll be sure to tell you.

⸸ I go by 𝐇𝐞/𝐒𝐡𝐞/𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 pronouns, and I don't really have a preference for whichever you choose to use for me. #𝘼𝙜𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧

⸸ I'm 𝐀𝐫𝐨𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐜, more specifically 𝘼𝙥𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙧𝙤𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙘. I don't mind people speaking about romance for short amounts of time, but I don't feel any desire at all to participate in it, and in some situations I become repulsed when having to be around romance for longer periods of time.

⸸ I'm also 𝐀𝐬𝐞𝐱𝐮𝐚𝐥, and likewise with my Aromanticism, I'm 𝘼𝙥𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙭𝙪𝙖𝙡. I'm much more repulsed with sexual topics than with romance, so just avoid discussing these things in detail completely.

⸸ My main 𝐟𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐦 is ℌ𝔞𝔲𝔫𝔱𝔢𝔡 ℌ𝔬𝔱𝔢𝔩, however I'm quite weary of other members, especially other Abaddon fans. My other main 𝙛𝙖𝙣𝙙𝙤𝙢𝙨 include Severance, Widow's Bay, 𝘙𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘞𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥, 𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘖𝘸𝘭 𝘏𝘰𝘶𝘴𝘦, 𝘈𝘥𝘷𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘦 𝘛𝘪𝘮𝘦, 𝘗𝘳𝘰𝘫𝘦𝘤𝘵 𝘏𝘢𝘪𝘭 𝘔𝘢𝘳𝘺... etc... I have a lot of media I enjoy and consume, these are just random examples. Haunted Hotel is the only one I actively participate in frequently though.

⸸ I absolutely adore 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐞 𝐖𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐬 & 𝐋𝐞𝐞 𝐄𝐦𝐢, but I also love Yaelokre, Rabbitology, Cosmo Sheldrake, Paris Paloma, Florence + The Machine... 𝘗𝘏𝘔+𝘚𝘱𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘴𝘵, 𝘞𝘪𝘥𝘰𝘸'𝘴 𝘉𝘢𝘺 𝘰𝘴𝘵, 𝘋𝘙/𝘙𝘞/𝘌𝘯𝘥𝘢𝘤𝘰𝘱𝘪𝘢 𝘰𝘴𝘵.. I'm always up for recommendations.

⸸ For the not fun stuff now.. I struggle a lot with my mental health, and thus my energy can fluctuate frequently. I can come off as apathetic or indifferent, but just because I'm emotionally numb a good chunk of the time doesn't mean that I don't care. I know who I care for and what I'm passionate about, unfortunately if I get overly excited, joyous, or angry my body tends to overreact (I get severely nauseous).

⸸ I'm POLITE, not friendly. I'll always try to hold a level of courteously towards you as long as you respect me, and I've had people describe me as too patient for my own good. However, just because I'm polite doesn't mean I'm friendly. I'll never go out of my way to be mean for no reason to others, but I can come across as blunt or disinterested when my social battery is depleted (which is often). I promise that I don't bite, but I'm not the friendliest person you'll meet.

⸸ It can take me quite a long time for me to consider someone a friend, it takes consistent interaction and respect over the course of a few months before I begin to consider you an actual friend instead of an acquaintance, until then I may not be vulnerable at all. If you stick around for long enough and can push through my avoidant tendencies I'll become comfortable reaching out on my own, and for those that I come to trust I'll stay by your side for years.

⸸ All of the art you see here and on my other accounts are made by me, I dabble a bit in writing as well whenever I don't feel like doodling.

⸸ Homophobic, Transphobic, Racist, Ableist. Yes, this includes hating people with NPD or BPD, or demonizing psychotic disorders. This includes hating those with unconventional pronouns or being exclusionist to intersex or nonbinary people. Yes, you're homophobic if you punch down on your own community. For fuck's sake you're racist if you believe that "Black people" are inherently stronger, or you think Asians are more feminine. There's so many more examples I didn't list, just be NORMAL.

⸸ RADQUEERS. I'm not elaborating further, if you 𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘺 as a RADQUEER, MAP, ZOO, NECRO, etc... Leave me alone.

⸸ Proship/Darkship. I'm educated on what the terms mean, you don't need to come up to me and explain why you're the exception to the label. I'm not going out of my way to harass you or interact with the content you produce, I expect the same level of courtesy for me.

⸸ Overly dark, edgy, or mean humor. I only allow this sort of humor with my closer friends, light teasing is alright. But if I see you justifying your behavior with the excuse of "I'm just joking!" or "You fell for the ragebait.", I'm immediately put off from interacting with you on a higher level.

⸸ The use of generative AI. This includes usage of AI chatbots or character AI.

⸸ Mentions of Suicide or Self-Harm without the appropriate warnings. There doesn't ever need to be warnings on 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐞𝐝 scars in drawings or photos, but otherwise put a warning on the content.

⸸ If you see children as stupid or inferior. You were a child once, and they are a person as well. Just treat children with respect, you don't need to be chums with them or buddy-buddy.

⸸ Harry Potter fans. It's been well known that JK Rowling is a BIGOT. I don't care if you pirate the media, I don't care if you only read fanfiction, I don't care what your excuse is, you're just as much of a bigot to me. If you're a so-called trans advocate then you should have enough understanding that you constantly pushing her work onto social media is still publicity, and still funds her blatant transphobia+racism.

⸸ Hetalia/Countryball. I don't really enjoy when I see people personify countries that have committed genocide as cutesy or something to be shipped.

⸸ Albert's Playhouse, Bearnuts, and House of Puso. I'm not against vent art, I'm against the fact that there's no proper warnings on this media. If you're posting something to the internet, you must take others into consideration.

⸸ Abaddon shippers, romantic selfshippers, anyone who sexualizes Abaddon. He's in the body of a nine year old and acts like a child. Even if you do these things with his original demon-form/pre-bound Abaddon, I don't care. We met him when he was in the body of a child with the behaviors of a child. Shoo.

⸸ Again, Haunted Hotel fandom, if you treat Nathan like he's never done anything wrong while condemning Katherine to the deepest pit of hell, dni. I love both of the siblings, and they both have flaws, notice how I said the worth 'both'.

⸸ Less of a DNI, but I DO block spam followers. I prefer my followers to be oomfs or people who potentially want to BE oomfs with me, not just people clicking a button on my github without actually knowing or having ever interacted with me.